I told myself that I have to learn to bite my tongue. I have to learn not to comment too much when it comes to certain things concerning some of my friends. Somethings it really does not help to comment too much. People will just find that you are a kpo. If that is the case, I might as well bite my tongue and not say anything.
My bf told me that he asked me why am I so concern about this thing? Maybe because I feel left out ba, maybe because I was supposed to be involved in this and yet they just suddenly exclude me. It happened without much warning, when I least expect it. It also made me wonder if it was something that I had done or said that made them not include me in this anymore. Whatever it is, it had already happened. I have also decided to just be a bystander and not comment too much when things crop up. Whatever I said will not make a difference anyway...
2 thoughts:
Just like to share something with you.
Be aware that certain people are hypersensitive. One good example is my good friend also. He is quite conservative in many things,I used to be like him but I think I am somewhat more open-minded than him, I mean I am willing to accept some level of risks when it comes to certain decision in life. For him, it is almost zero.
But we are still good friends. He has his strong points...like stable, stick to his principles, compassionate etc, all in all, still a good buddy.
I am also quite conscious as not to touch people's nerves too much, or else somebody may accuse me of stepping on their toes. However, it must be mutual, my friends are aware of it.
I think different people have different level of acceptance when it comes to heeding other people's advice. I have told myself that I will not make any unnecessary comments or advice unless they seek my opinion. I rather things stay this way and not let my "kpo-ness" ruin an otherwise good friendship. :)
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