曲名：做自己
歌手：同恩
会不会走太快
爱宠坏你和我
能不能停一下
只要一下就可以
偶尔我想偷个闲
好或坏等明天再想
偶尔我会有点腻
好或坏等明天再说
不想爱你或爱他
我只想做自己
只想为了自己多呼吸一点
就算爱你比爱他 更美丽
不如我让自己解放
会不会走太快
爱宠坏你和我
能不能停一下
只要一下就可以
偶尔我想松了弦
而好或坏等明天再想
偶尔我想听不见
是好是坏等明天再说
不想爱你或爱他
我只想做自己
只想为了自己多呼吸一点
就算爱你比爱他 更美丽
不如我让自己解放 oh
不想为你 我为他
我只想爱自己
只想为了自己再诚实一些
就没有你没有他 没有谁
只剩我和自己流浪
会不会走太快 爱宠坏你和我
能不能停一下
一下就可以
29 August, 2005
27 August, 2005
Yesterday...
I always hear this song on yes 933 and like it quite a lot so went n find the lyrics jus now... =)
Yesterday By Beatles
Yesterday
All my troubles seem so far away
Now it looks as though they're here to stay
Oh I believe in yesterday
SuddenlyI'm not half the man I used to be
There's a shadow hanging over me
Oh yesterday came suddenly
Why she had to go
I don't know she wouldn't say
I said something wrong
Now I long for yesterday
Yesterday
Love was such an easy game to play
Now I need a place to hide away
Oh I believe in yesterday
Why she had to go
I don't know she wouldn't say
I said something wrong
Now I long for yesterday
Yesterday
Love was such an easy game to play
Now I need a place to hide away
Oh I believe in yesterday
Yesterday By Beatles
Yesterday
All my troubles seem so far away
Now it looks as though they're here to stay
Oh I believe in yesterday
SuddenlyI'm not half the man I used to be
There's a shadow hanging over me
Oh yesterday came suddenly
Why she had to go
I don't know she wouldn't say
I said something wrong
Now I long for yesterday
Yesterday
Love was such an easy game to play
Now I need a place to hide away
Oh I believe in yesterday
Why she had to go
I don't know she wouldn't say
I said something wrong
Now I long for yesterday
Yesterday
Love was such an easy game to play
Now I need a place to hide away
Oh I believe in yesterday
25 August, 2005
If ever I am to go missing...
If ever I am to go missing from your life, please don't try and look for me ok? It may be that I'm finally sick and tired of all these and need to get away from it all. It may also be because I decided to be a coward and hide from you all so that I don't have to think so much anymore...
Sometimes I really feel like off-ing my hp so that nobody will be able to find me. Or even better, lose all my contact nos. or lost my hp so that I can start everything all over again. Perhaps it is the only way that I can get away from all these things and I will then be able to have time to think of what I really want.
There are other times when I hope I will lose my memories. So that I do not have to be reminded of all the happy and sad memories I had with so many people. So that I do not have to be reminded of the things i 'should' and 'should not' do.
Sometimes I really think I need a break from all these and hide from everyone in a place where nobody can find me. So that I can think things through and not feel so bothered by all these things...
So if ever you cannot find me by calling or sms-ing me throughout the whole day, jus leave me alone and give me some time to myself ok? Let me hide in my shell for a while until I'm ready to face the world again...
I think I'm under too much stress at the moment so if you want, you can ignore whatever I typed here...
23 August, 2005
Five surprising reasons men are happy in a relationship
got this from a mail my friend fwded to me... think it's quite true to a certain extent ba... But I'm not a guy so who am I to comment whether it's true or not rite? ;)
Five surprising reasons men are happy in a relationship
by Bonnie Yuill
Don't be fooled by the male ego. Men look for more in a relationship than an attractive women who will cook him a good meal and wash his clothes every once in a while. What he really needs is your admiration.
He needs to communicate with you
A lot of men need to be in a relationship more than women do. Surprising? Not really, when you think about it. Women usually have close relationships with their friends. They talk about health problems until they feel better. But men don't. As Helen Fielding's character, Bridget Jones, says, 'Women have emotions and men have football.' Men are competitive and so, in general, they rarely share their emotions or problems with each other, as they think it makes them look too weak. When he needs to open up and talk about his feelings, guess who he eventually shows his vulnerable side to? You!
He wants to be your hero
Knowing that he can make someone else happy makes him feel good inside, because he has the power to change things. And what bloke doesn't secretly want power of some sort? At least if he can't always be top dog at work, he can be a star at home. Instinctively, he aspires to be Spider-Man or Superman – to be your hero, to be able to make things right: to be appreciated, to be someone's knight in shining armour. So when you are disappointed or unhappy, he feels responsible. What matters is that you are happy and then he's got one less thing to worry about. Strange but true.
He strives to make you happy
The number one reason men leave relationships is because they feel as though they can't meet their partner's needs. This makes them feel inadequate, and it makes them feel as though there's no way their partner can feel respect for them. For women, communication seems to be the top priority in keeping the relationship going – but, quite honestly, men don't understand this constant need to talk about things over and over.
For men, the relationship is a success if they feel respected and if they make their partner happy. This is why a new conquest is exactly that – he feels as though he is in charge – he is once again someone's knight in shining armour.
If you resent him because you feel overworked and under-appreciated, stop doing so much – you are probably destroying your relationship! He doesn't want to feel responsible for you rushing around, worn into the carpet, and most men really don't notice whether the housework has been done or not. What they want is respect and appreciation. 'All we really want from women,' a (male) friend recently told me, 'is for you to smile at us.' (And probably one other thing, if he thought about it for longer than a millisecond.)
Sex makes him feel loved
Sex has the same effect on men as romance does on women. So the reverse is also true: no sex = no love, no approval, no acknowledgement. They get that same sad, unloved feeling that you get when you don't get flowers, your partner looks at other women or ignores you.
You are his (secret) reason for living
He needs you because you inspire him to do better – he has someone to do things for, goals to reach, a reason to go out and conquer the world. What's the point of being disgustingly rich and powerful if there's no one to share it with? What he needs is the gift of you.
Five surprising reasons men are happy in a relationship
by Bonnie Yuill
Don't be fooled by the male ego. Men look for more in a relationship than an attractive women who will cook him a good meal and wash his clothes every once in a while. What he really needs is your admiration.
He needs to communicate with you
A lot of men need to be in a relationship more than women do. Surprising? Not really, when you think about it. Women usually have close relationships with their friends. They talk about health problems until they feel better. But men don't. As Helen Fielding's character, Bridget Jones, says, 'Women have emotions and men have football.' Men are competitive and so, in general, they rarely share their emotions or problems with each other, as they think it makes them look too weak. When he needs to open up and talk about his feelings, guess who he eventually shows his vulnerable side to? You!
He wants to be your hero
Knowing that he can make someone else happy makes him feel good inside, because he has the power to change things. And what bloke doesn't secretly want power of some sort? At least if he can't always be top dog at work, he can be a star at home. Instinctively, he aspires to be Spider-Man or Superman – to be your hero, to be able to make things right: to be appreciated, to be someone's knight in shining armour. So when you are disappointed or unhappy, he feels responsible. What matters is that you are happy and then he's got one less thing to worry about. Strange but true.
He strives to make you happy
The number one reason men leave relationships is because they feel as though they can't meet their partner's needs. This makes them feel inadequate, and it makes them feel as though there's no way their partner can feel respect for them. For women, communication seems to be the top priority in keeping the relationship going – but, quite honestly, men don't understand this constant need to talk about things over and over.
For men, the relationship is a success if they feel respected and if they make their partner happy. This is why a new conquest is exactly that – he feels as though he is in charge – he is once again someone's knight in shining armour.
If you resent him because you feel overworked and under-appreciated, stop doing so much – you are probably destroying your relationship! He doesn't want to feel responsible for you rushing around, worn into the carpet, and most men really don't notice whether the housework has been done or not. What they want is respect and appreciation. 'All we really want from women,' a (male) friend recently told me, 'is for you to smile at us.' (And probably one other thing, if he thought about it for longer than a millisecond.)
Sex makes him feel loved
Sex has the same effect on men as romance does on women. So the reverse is also true: no sex = no love, no approval, no acknowledgement. They get that same sad, unloved feeling that you get when you don't get flowers, your partner looks at other women or ignores you.
You are his (secret) reason for living
He needs you because you inspire him to do better – he has someone to do things for, goals to reach, a reason to go out and conquer the world. What's the point of being disgustingly rich and powerful if there's no one to share it with? What he needs is the gift of you.
20 August, 2005
My naughty daddy...
I love my dad a lot. Maybe except for the fact that he is rather strict with me in some ways, I think he is really a wonderful parent. Sometimes I will get irritated with him and my mum because I dun like to be told by him or my mum to reach home at wat time or cannot stay out until too late and etc... Even though I know they are just concern about my safety but there will be times when I really can't help but feel irritated. Maybe cos I'm always a rebellious ba... However, no matter wat happens, to me, my dad is the perfect husband to my mum and the most wonderful daddy in the world.
Sometimes I think I am a bit of 恋父 . I remember I once told my sis that if ever I am to get married with anyone, I will like to marry someone like my dad. To me, in some ways, my dad is the perfect example of a good husband. Dunno y also... Maybe because of the way my mum and him 相处 with each other. I always think they are very sweet. I always love to see how my dad will think up of many different ways to ka jiao or trick my mum. In fact, sometimes I think ka jiao-ing my mum is my dad's favorite activty. Sometimes I will even gang up with my dad and trick my poor mum... hee...
anyway, just to quote the latest ka jiao incident that happen yesterday...
Last nite I heard the latest 'incident' of my blur mummy kanna ka jiao by my funny daddy... My mum was in the kitchen doing her normal household chores in the afternoon. It happens that my dad returned home just when my mum went into the toilet. When my dad realised that my mum was in the toilet, he immediately sneaked into their room w/o her knowing that he was home. My naughty daddy then connect an unused phone to the telephone socket in their room and called my mum's hp when she got out of the toilet. When my mum saw the caller id reflecting our home no, she was very puzzled. Because there was only 'one' phone in our hse which is in the kitchen but yet the call that received was fr our hse. At first she thot that she did not hang up the phone properly but after checking, she found the phone to be totally alright. The phone rang again a second time and reflected my hse no again. that was when my dad came out from the room pretending that nothing had happened at all. In the end my dad confessed to being the culprit... hee... I think kinda scary for my mum wor... esp when it's the 7th month now. hee... bet my mum nearky freaked out. :p
hee... wat a cute dad I have rite? :D
Sometimes I think I am a bit of 恋父 . I remember I once told my sis that if ever I am to get married with anyone, I will like to marry someone like my dad. To me, in some ways, my dad is the perfect example of a good husband. Dunno y also... Maybe because of the way my mum and him 相处 with each other. I always think they are very sweet. I always love to see how my dad will think up of many different ways to ka jiao or trick my mum. In fact, sometimes I think ka jiao-ing my mum is my dad's favorite activty. Sometimes I will even gang up with my dad and trick my poor mum... hee...
anyway, just to quote the latest ka jiao incident that happen yesterday...
Last nite I heard the latest 'incident' of my blur mummy kanna ka jiao by my funny daddy... My mum was in the kitchen doing her normal household chores in the afternoon. It happens that my dad returned home just when my mum went into the toilet. When my dad realised that my mum was in the toilet, he immediately sneaked into their room w/o her knowing that he was home. My naughty daddy then connect an unused phone to the telephone socket in their room and called my mum's hp when she got out of the toilet. When my mum saw the caller id reflecting our home no, she was very puzzled. Because there was only 'one' phone in our hse which is in the kitchen but yet the call that received was fr our hse. At first she thot that she did not hang up the phone properly but after checking, she found the phone to be totally alright. The phone rang again a second time and reflected my hse no again. that was when my dad came out from the room pretending that nothing had happened at all. In the end my dad confessed to being the culprit... hee... I think kinda scary for my mum wor... esp when it's the 7th month now. hee... bet my mum nearky freaked out. :p
hee... wat a cute dad I have rite? :D
18 August, 2005
Why can't they just get over and done with it?!
damn pissed off now... grrr... it's jus a bloody project! why are they always dragging and dragging n dragging it? Cant they jus do it nw, get it over and done with? With the dateline on nx fri and it's already bad enuff that we DID NOT TOUCH it yet, they still wan to keep on dragging... fuck up proj....
12 August, 2005
Why is it getting more n more complicated...?
Sometimes I can't help but wonder about why is my love life getting more n more complicated as I grow older and older? Does the problem lies in me only or is everyone facing the same problem as I am? Does it lies in the change of my mentality as I grow older or...? It's a question I will like to have an answer to but I am still searching for that answer... Who can answer me?
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