Sometimes I feel that after you end a relationship, you need to be cruel to the other party in order to let them not have any more hope left. You may be together with that person for a long period of time or maybe the person really loves you alot but when the time comes that there is no way for you to continue the relationship, it might be actually better to be cruel and cut off all contacts with them than to 拖拖拉拉.
There may be a chance that later in life, the both of you may become friends again but there is always a down period when you need to be firm and stop all contacts. Being cruel may be the fastest way for that person to forget you even though they may feel very hurt. That might be kinder to them instead. After all, how many times have you feel sick about being given false hope then get disappointed time and again? It's time to wake up from the dreams... Time to know that nothing may ever come out of it... When it's not meant to be, it's just not meant to be...
There may be a chance that later in life, the both of you may become friends again but there is always a down period when you need to be firm and stop all contacts. Being cruel may be the fastest way for that person to forget you even though they may feel very hurt. That might be kinder to them instead. After all, how many times have you feel sick about being given false hope then get disappointed time and again? It's time to wake up from the dreams... Time to know that nothing may ever come out of it... When it's not meant to be, it's just not meant to be...
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This reminds me of the line from the movie "心动". “分手要分的干干净净，不要拖拖拉拉，拖泥带水”。
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