You need to do something before somethings will change

I was talking to him on the phone just now. I knew he wasn't in a good mood cos I can feel it from his smses. He told me that it was something to do about work and he will tell me about it after he finished his work. As I was still in Benny's hse after he finished work, I told him that I will talk to him when I am on my way home.

I called him and talked to him while I was on my way home. Both of us sort of have an arguement about what he was trying to tell me. He told me how he was unhappy with his current job and all but I feel that the job can be better if he makes some effort and try to change things. Maybe it's because the difference in our opinion, so we ended the conversation in a rather unhappy way I guess.

I dunno how can I let him see the fact that things may turn out to be the same in most places. Neither do I know how can I let him know that sometimes it's up to him to make the first move to change something. Sometimes you need to do something before somethings will change... Not everyone has the same "I don't care, I do what I think is rite" mentality as me.... If you don't have this kind of mentality, then you better do something else to change what you wan to change...